Gay’s advice about Love

Things to reduce my concentration…

Today, I was a little stressed because I couldn’t concentrate on my job. I had to prepare for tomorrow’s meeting, but there were a few things which lowered my concentration.

First, my colleagues had a quarrel with a whispering voice. A staff asked for a job, but another staff was telling some excuses to turn it down. Although their voice was so small, both sounded so irritated. I tried to shut down the noize, but the disagreement gained my attention…

Second, a newly joined staff looked at me every time I moved. I didn’t remember how many times we looked at each other. He was looking around today. I hope he will get used to our team soon.

I could finish the preparation finally. I wondered how to maintain concentration…

Gay’s advice about love

By the way, just before leaving our office, a female friend sent me a LINE message. It said that the friend was so anxious because there was no reply from her steady lately. Moreover, the steady hadn’t answered the phone, she said.

I really knew how she felt because I had experienced the similar situation before…After having broken up with my ex-boyfriend, I met many potential boyfrineds for about two and a half years. That experience improved my communication skills like a pro. (Joking.) Therefore, I could understand how anxious she was… Even if you were LGBT or straight, we had the same concerns while dating with the partner, I thought.

My advice was “Just be confident and wait.” I knew most people including me couldn’t wait, but advice was advice. How hard it was to wait for the reply from the partner, especially those who just started dating…

However, from my experience, I can say that a person who cannot wait and need an answer just to calm himself/herself down is difficult to build up long-term relationship with the steady.

I had made a lot of mistakes until I found my partner… That was dark past for me…